You Want Modules, Not Microservices
Do you need to decompose the problem into independent entities? You can do that by embracing standalone processes hosted in Docker containers, or you can do that by embracing standalone modules in an application server that obey a standardized API convention, or a variety of other options. This isn't a technical problem that requires abandoning anything that's already been built--it can be done using technologies from anywhere in the last twenty years, including servlets, ASP.NET, Ruby, Python, C++, maybe even shudder Perl. The key is to establish that common architectural backplane with well-understood integration and communication conventions, whatever you want or need it to be.
Do you need to reduce the dependencies your development team is facing? Then begin by looking at those dependencies and working with partners to determine which of them you can bring into the team's wheelhouse. If the organization doesn't want to officially break up the "skill-centric" ontology of its org chart (meaning you have a "database" group, a "infrastructure" group, and a "QA" group as peers to your "development" group), then work with the senior executives to at least allow for a "dotted-line" reporting structure, so there's individuals from each group that are now "matrixed" in on a single team. But, most importantly, make sure that team has a crystal-clear vision of what it is they're trying to build, and they can confidently describe the heart of their service/microservice/module to any random stranger walking by on the street. The key is to give the team the direction and goal, the autonomy to accomplish it, and the clarion call to get it done.
It really boils down to these two things, which really, really, really have nothing to do with each other except tangentially.